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Monthly Book Give-A-Way – Never Eat Alone

Wednesday, November 28th, 2007

JDsBlog Book Give A Way - Never Eat Alone - Professional NetworksNever Eat Alone was one of the books I took down to camp with me this past weekend, and I am still sifting through all the notes I took out of it!

The essence of the book was professional networks: How to get the most from your personal network. How to expand you network. How to meet people that might affect your network. And how to use your network to your greatest advantage.

JDsBlog Book Give A Way - Never Eat Alone - Professional NetworksJDsBlog Book Give A Way - Never Eat Alone - Professional NetworksOne thing in particular that I liked about the book was it’s insistence on not being a “Hyper-networker.” In other words, don’t attend conferences or events with “a martini in one hand and a stack of business cards in the other.” People that just exchange business cards without ever forming a real connection are a waste of time.

Also, Keith Ferazzi establishes the importance of helping other people and never being afraid to ask for help yourself. In today’s world, asking for help is almost tabboo. Everyone wants to appear to be in control, and if you are asking for help it means you are relying on someone else!

In all actuality, showing that you need help and that you are vulnerable is an appealing trait. It shows others that you do have weaknesses – just like the rest of the world.

Never Eat Alone is a fantastic book for anyone involoved in business, blogging, freelancing, writing, or anything else. I highly encourage checking it out the next time you are at the book store!

In the meantime though, I am going to be giving away three (3) copies!

Just leave a comment below before Tuesday, December 4th. Then, I will pull names out of a hat and get them shipped out from Amazon!

Growth comes from change

Tuesday, November 27th, 2007

I took a short vacation to the middle of nowhere this past weekend. Armed with a couple of new books, a pad, and paper; I started doing some off the wall stuff like writing a personal mission statement, writing down my goals for the next couple years, and so on. It was a very productive weekend to say the least.

On the way down, I was listening to the audiobook version of ‘Never Eat Alone’ which is an amazing read. In fact, it is going to be my book of the month whenever I get in front of a computer to do the giveaway, but anyway…

In the book Keith Ferrazi says “Growth only comes from change.” This rings so true in both business and life. The only way to grow is to change. Whether its a new product or a new initiative, change is what helps you break out of a rut, get into new territory, or further strengthen your success..

Mirrored Reflection

Friday, November 23rd, 2007

ReflectionOf all the skills that I have learned over the years, there is one that I feel is the single most important in my repertoire. Not only does it allow me the opportunity to solidify my experiences into something actionable, but it gives me the chance to plan out my next steps in the future.

This skill is reflection.

Reflection

Reflection takes on many different forms for many different people. For some, reflection is as easy as working out or reading a book. For others, it is writing. It might be a little more time intensive too, like needing to go on a retreat to a cabin once a month. In all these cases though, it is therapeutic in nature.

Google gives us a pretty cohesive definition of reflection:

  • contemplation: a calm lengthy intent consideration

One I like a little better is found on infed.org, though.

  • reflection: turning experience into learning

The reason reflection is so powerful is because it affords you the opportunity to evaluate all that you have done, and how it will apply to things you will do. For instance, one of my favorite times to reflect is at the end of a work week.

Take reflection day by day

Every day, I write down what I did and didn’t do.  I also write the people I came in contact with and what for.  In fact, it is the last task I finish before I leave the office. I go through what I accomplished, how I did it, and what was the outcome. If there are any notes, I add those in as well.

Then on Friday when I get home, I take about an hour to go through my week’s worth of scribblings and I reflect on the tasks that comprised my work week. I usually like to do this in my home office, or sitting in by favorite chair (without the TV on).  I think about how I could have done each of the tasks better. Or where I could have gone for more information. Or if I want to attempt that task again. Or if I want to bill more the next time a similar project comes up.

Similarly, I go through all the people I had the pleasure of dealing with during the week.  I make sure I have their contact details.  I write down things that were pertinent to our conversation, or things I could remember them wanting.  I try to get a little mental image of them so that I know who they are an what they are about.

Now, this might sound a little dumb, but I assure you it is one of the most powerful things you could ever do.

Developing your information hub

In time, these weekly reflection sessions turn into a string of notes and information and thoughts that help you build your information hub.  As you can see, we are not only performing tasks and making people connections, we are allowing ourselves to interpret each unique situation.

In time, you will start to see new ideas and thought patterns emerge from these reflection sessions that might open up a new interest in you.  They will start to shape your goals and your education.

The empowered individual

The bottom line is this: you will start to feel more empowered as an individual.  You will feel as though no matter what happens, you have the skill set to overcome it.  You will have the ability to turn the situation into something positive.  Why?  Because you have done it before!  You have achieved a similar task, you know how you did it, and you learned all you could from it.  You solidified your experiences into something that makes up who you are through reflection.  Why would you be afraid?  There isn’t any reason to be.

Thanks Giving

Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

Winter TreeJust a quick note from your friends here at JDsBlog, wishing everyone a Happy Thanksgiving! It is great to have readers as wonderful as you all are, and I thank you for the support you have shown.

For a bit of light reading, I want to leave you with some Henry Ford quotes:

  • A market is never saturated with a good product, but it is very quickly saturated with a bad one.
  • Any colour – so long as it’s black.
  • As we advance in life we learn the limits of our abilities.”
  • Don’t find fault, find a remedy; anybody can complain.”
  • Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.

I particularly like the last one :0)

Power Meetings

Tuesday, November 20th, 2007

Power meetings - conference roomI saw the term ‘Power Meeting’ on a billboard, and had to laugh. If I remember correctly, it was for a cable Internet company advertising their IT services, but anyway…

I really can’t stand meetings. Especially when they are the long, drawn out kind that leave you wishing for a either bathroom break or a stiff drink at the end. Frankly, meetings are an art form. Both in organizing them, conducting them, and following up on them.

Don’t Waste Your Employee’s Time

First and foremost, don’t waste someone’s time. They won’t appreciate it, and chances are they aren’t going to be offering anything at the meeting anyway. So you are basically paying them for being unproductive.

Have A Focused Set Of Objectives

Make sure you have an outline going in of things that need to be discussed. Don’t spring new information on someone either. Email the meeting agenda out to everyone, that way people can prepare accordingly. The better prepared everyone is, the more you will get out of your meeting.

Adding the ‘Power’ to the Normal Meeting:

Here are some things that you need to come to grips with before venturing into the conference room. Once you come up with your answers, email them to everyone who will be attending the meeting.

  • Why are we here?
  • What are the main discussion points?
  • What do we need to understand?
  • What do we want to leave with?
  • What’s in it for me? For us?
  • What isn’t expected?
  • How are discussion points going to be followed up?

Rescheduling, Recurring, and Exiting

When I was at Pepsi, we used to have 1.5 to 2 hour sales meetings every Tuesday; and they were definitely painful. The last thing any of us wanted to do at 6 AM was listen to our bosses for 2 hours, talking about something that could have been communicated just as well through email. In fact, most of the stuff we talked about was sent through email, but the meetings were designed to ‘reinforce it.’

In fact, I am of the accord that meetings over 30 minutes aren’t worth the time. For a meeting to stretch over the half hour mark, the objectives are terribly unfocused. Chances are the discussion points weren’t really necessary, or people weren’t given enough information prior to the meeting to prepare. That lack of preparation then led to the ‘baffle them with bullshit’ line of thinking, and so on.

There is one exception to this thirty minute rule though. That is in launching new businesses or coming together on some new product / process.

Usually, when you are starting something new, you are bringing together divisions, firms, people, and resources that aren’t usually used to working together. So the meetings are as much a feeling out process as they are a tool for productivity. They are essential to the new business’ development though.

In either case, it is essential to have some sort of follow up plan after the meeting. This can be carried out through meeting notes, email, assigning tasks, and so on. There might even be a follow up meeting with a couple people.

Power Meetings

The point of power meetings is to focus on a few key topics, extract the required information, and move on.

If everyone was in agreement from the beginning, meetings wouldn’t be necessary. Business would just be this nice, cohesive unit the functions regardless of any situation.

But as Henry Ford said, “If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see things from that person’s angle as well as from your own.” And that is the function or power meetings.